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Me and Maya were talking about a hangout plan through a WhatsApp call that night.

"I'm honestly very unsure to join." I repeated this answer a few times already, but she didn't give up.

"Actually, Rin..." She replied. "Can I ask you something? And I want you to be honest with me."

I nodded while speaking. "Okay." I knew how much Maya appreciate straight-forward communication.

"I noticed you're no longer passionate in our friendship like before."

True.

"At first, I thought it's because of all this adulthood matters. But over time... I don't know, it seems like the dynamic has changed between us four. You no longer want to spend time with us, instead you choose your other friends despite how far they are. Is something wrong? Can we try to fix it?"

I sighed. "Maya," I wet my lips. "You're right. I'm a bit surprised that you noticed."

"Of course I do." She chipped in.

"But it isn't your fault. You're good. It's..." I paused. "Aafi." I mentioned one of our girls. "I don't feel fun with her. The conversation feels childish. It's like you're 16 and never grew up. Aren't we all adult now? I don't know what a proper adult should be conversing but the only highlight I remember talking with her last time is about a boy. Can you believe it?" I ranted. It felt so good to get it out of my chest, I could hardly stop.

Maya didn't respond. I wasn't sure if she was surprised or just waiting if I wanted to speak more.

"I don't dislike her. I don't want to risk our friendship. I just... There's this gap that makes me not enjoy her presence anymore. And you know when I don't enjoy my time with somebody, I'd rather be alone. Especially you three for some reason really like to be 'all or nothing' is our plan. Can we just chill with two or three of us sometimes without it being an issue?" I continued.

"I get what you mean." She finally replied. "You know Aafi. She doesn't have the opportunity to progress in our pace. People often overlook the fact that financial status does effect emotional well-being. When you can only do so much, you have less things to worry and more time to waste."

"Hardship builds character." I agreed. "And it'd be apparent if you don't face much."

"Remember Casey? She was also quite childish before. But then she lived 5 years in adversity and turned out really attractive; personality-wise." Maya reminded me of our school mate.

"Oh, yes." I did remember her. "I felt very content talking with her last time, though we didn't even vibe in high school. It's insane."

I bet Maya was nodding her head. "Ditto."

We both were silent for a few seconds.

"So... now that you know what I feel about our friendship..." I trailed off.

"I can't speak on behalf of the girls, you know that." She chuckled slightly. "But I won't force you to join us in every hang out anymore. Personally, I wouldn't mind. It's just a wonder before, why you acted different."

"Because my level of tolerance is lower than yours, Maya." I cut in with a smile.

She laughed. "She will grow up. We all do."